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Aug 31, 2010
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by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

What you experienced is calling "relationship violence" or "dating violence". You were smart to get out of that situation and not go back. Writing you that text, saying he was sorry, etc., that was all part of the cycle of violence. He and his brother are bad news. I would report what happened, before another unsuspecting girl gets harmed. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
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Sep 01, 2010
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by: Anonymous

hi

you are lucky for alot of reasons, that you thought it thru and figured out who you are first off in a normal situtation and then you also were lucky that his family he although he didnt do it, abided by no and his family at least had morals to stop it, no was recognized before it went too far for you even that too far

i guess i wonder your generation women or even men what it is where communication is broken down everyething is supposedly unspoken words we presume things based on here say or gestures or gifts and such too much presumeing, i think your generation two things solve this, right up front when you meet someone make your self clear , serous or not serious, or thinking maybe serious and if so the reasons and what that means before you even go on first date, and better get to know the person in group settings , you lucky the group was brother who yelled ect and stopped it, someone else there, thats my advise to young people that way the invisble boundries dont exist, you make it clear not one thing wrong with open communication dating and sex all that thats what i like to see both my sons and daughter do as they grow and find someone, there are no invisilbe boundries you got to say them talk and well maybe lose the guy or girl if you say truth tuff thats the way it goes, thats what i think is normal open communication in dating clear rules

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