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Dec 26, 2012
 Frances:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your 9-year-old is very bright and insightful to see that you need some form of therapy or counselling. The best gift you can give your children is to treat their mother with dignity and respect and love, and to be very healthy for them. That's starts with YOU. As long as you keep beating your Self up for the mistakes you made with that abuser, you will not be fully present for your children. Don't keep punishing your Self for the choices you made. Get the help you need in order for you to understand how you made such choices, and then ultimately learn to made healthier choices. We all make mistakes; if all of us condemned our Selves to life sentences because of those mistakes, we'd ALL be living in self-imposed prisons. I don't even want to imagine a world like that. Take your daughter's advice: get the help you need, for your sake and for your children's. I send you love, light and healing energy, Frances. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Dec 27, 2012
 right now i got people stealing my money an husbands my real marriage ok real retirement
by: Anonymous

From Darlene - Webmaster: Frances, and my other visitors to this thread, I've deleted 3 separate comments from this particular commenter who leaves posts that are judgmental and wholly inappropriate. I cannot block her, but I'll continue to delete her comments before they ever go live on the site.

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