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Feb 23, 2016
 Chelsea:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

No no no, don't say you're to blame
It's abusers who ALWAYS carry the shame.
In abuse you have no shame here to bear
Whether it's once, twice, thrice or 7 times squared.

When abuse happens from a very young age
It sets the child up for more than just rage.
Boundaries are lost or just set aside
Keeping the child quiet unable to confide.

Coping becomes the very main goal
And with that coping more risk to behold.
Abusers sense a vulnerable child
They pounce on them and begin to defile.

And as the child grows up and matures
The risk still exists but becomes such a blur.
Without proper boundaries and REAL love to embrace
The now-grown child only knows being debased.

So please stop blaming your Self for abuse
Instead start waving a flag of truce.
A flag that's a symbol to rise above
A flag that reminds you you're worthy of Love.

Start by writing how wonderful you are
List all the things that make you a star.
And don't for a second think they don't exist
I know for a fact there's a very long list.

And the next time you say how awful you are
Refer to that list that shows you're a star.
And whenever you call your Self something bad
Go back to the list, the opposite you'll add.

Keep that list really close to your heart
Refer to it often to bring on a fresh start.
Remember you're worthy and deserve respect
In time you'll find a healthy connect.

Thank you for sharing with my visitors and me
Sharing your fears and understandable plea.
Chelsea, I send healing energy without delay
I send love and light out your way.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

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