My toddler was sexually abused at daycare: How do I function again?

by Jess
(Rougemont, North Carolina, USA)

Mom Gone Crazy!!! 
I have just found out my 3-year-old was sexually abused at daycare. It has made me absolutely crazy!! I can't eat, sleep, or think about anything else. I have gone to the police already. How do I function again??

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