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Dec 27, 2017
 To Breshannon:
by: Darlene - Healing Coach

Clearly, you mother was consumed with a twisted hatred that she took out on you. I'm so sorry that you were forced to live in such...evil.

It is not uncommon for the human body to respond to sexual stimulus, even when it's rape. And though it happens more often in young males, it most definitely happens with young females as well. There doesn't have to be anything medically wrong or unusual for that to happen. And it most certainly doesn't mean that the victim "enjoyed" the sexual abuse. FAR from it. You are the poster child for that very situation. And you don't ever have to worry about someone here ever telling you otherwise.

I would say to you that it's more important that you find forgiveness for yourself, for all that you carry in your own self-loathing. Your kids...well, that's out of your control. You can only manage what you can control.

You have someone in your life, your TRUE father, who loves you. Perhaps there is a way to bring more healing into your life with the father-daughter connection you have with him.

I send you loving healing energy, Deshannon.

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Darlene Barriere
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Jan 16, 2018
 To Me, From Me!
by: Anonymous

First, Thank you so much for publishing my story! I hope that it can help anyone out there suffering! Second, Thank you all for your support. I am grateful...Although most of my story is painful, I have ALOT to be thankful for that I didn't mention, and I wish I had.

I did mention my Dad. My hero. The BEST guy on Earth. But, my head was in a BAD place when I wrote this piece, causing me to overlook an incredible human being, whose been next to my "nuttier than a squirrel turd" side for six years! J. and I met October 13th,2012, after I spent an hour and a half dodging bullets from a meth head wanna-be-pimp. We fell in love inside of six hours and are going into our sixth year.

I'm SPOILED ROTTEN, at least to ME,it is! I"M HAPPY. AND UPDATE:This piece was written SEVERALmonths ago. I took the opportunity to be proactive in my own life! I took my lumps. If you deserve them; take them. Sometime you gotta go through some FIRE, before you can relax on the beach! I STAYED consistent, and I've got MOST of my kids back in my life! A family reunion is being planned for this summer. We're making it a "closure party" for us all,by scattering Mom's ashes, together.

YES! THERE IS LIFE AFTER ABUSE. GOOD LIFE.But, like everything else,you gotta work for it. TOU CAN DO IT, YOU'VE SURVIVED WORSE, RIGHT?

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