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Apr 28, 2010
 Victoria:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You are dealing with emotional abuse. And you are likely dealing with grief over the loss of your beloved father, as well as feelings of abandonment from your mother. If your mother won't do anything about what's happening in your home or get you the help you need, talk to a school counsellor. Contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you are still dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Apr 29, 2010
 Always believe in yourself: Don't give up on yourself: Don't Quit:
by: maurice

Hiya, Victoria, Darlene has offered you a way out of the low ebb you find yourself in right now after those horrific years of abuse: Emotional abuse takes much longer to break free from: But you can be a winner: You have guts, you found Darlene's site, that is a sure start for a new begginning in your life: You are a big girl now, young woman in your own right, it is your life now: Don't keep living in the past with all the crap you had to endure from an uncaring woman/mother: The loss of your Father was (is) a bereavement you have to work through. You will Victoria 3. I will, I can, I must, because I am WORTH it. Bleive that Victoria 3. Speak with a counsellor, oh yes that will be the best of starts for you: A counsellor will listen to you, he/she will let you tell all that is effecting you from those awful years of your innocent surviving not living with that horrible woman/mother: It was not MY fault. I was not to blame, I could not stop her, she was in control. I am not to blame for her sickness and I did not ask to be born into such a house or family. OK Victoria 3. off your bottom, do something about being a winner over abuse. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. get mixing with like-minded friends, people, women your age taking part in sporting and cultural activities. Hi your mother was only one bad woman, you know there are great women out there who will value and respect you for who YOU are NOW. Be gentle and kind with yourself, but be firm with yourself too: Don't sit back and I should do this and I should do that to rid myself of the effects of my emotional abuse: Get off that BOTTOM of yours and DO it. You are not doing it because Darlene, me or anyone who comments encourages you: you are doing it for yourself: I want what is the best for you, you must want what is the best for you. Darlene wanted what was the best for her away from her horrific abuse. She is the winner, from victim to victory and now empowering you and all her visitors to be winners too. Live well, Laugh alot, Love much. beginning with yourself in front of the MIRROR: Look at that beautiful and wonderful me looking at you. Think positive, act positive, be positive in all you think and say to that me. I am the most important woman in tha mirror NOW; Go on hug and cuddle yourself ah now I bet you feel good for having done that. Trust yourself, Always believe in YOURSEL:

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