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Jan 03, 2011
 To Uncannyb:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You most certainly DID survive! Now you've been left with the repercussions of enduring horrific abuse at the hands of a mother that was clearly unfit, emotionally and mentally disturbed (sick, actually) and overwhelmed with the demands of motherhood. Not an excuse, but part of an explanation. You paid a dear price for her sickness. So of course you would get emotional when seeing such an emotionally charge photograph of a terrified child. Just because you are a military man doesn't make you made of stone. You're a human being first. Please consider some form of counseling to help you deal with the repercussions of what you endured as a child. And keep in mind that the reason you're faced with these memories flooding back is because your mind understands that you are now capable of dealing with them, where you likely were not before. Don't keep burying the memories. Get help in allowing them to surface. Doing so will allow the emotions to also finally surface—and don't be surprised if it now happens in spades as a result of your mother's stroke; her stoke may well re-awaken even more. And when those emotions finally surface and are experienced fully, they will let you go, but in all likelihood not before. Trust me when I say that; it's what happened to me when I was in therapy all those years ago. Therapy is what allowed me to go from victim to victory. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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Jan 05, 2011
 Such uncontrolled sadism
by: Anonymous

Uncannyb, what your so-called mother did to you was pathetic and ungrateful because she was twisted, confused, warped, cruel and sadistic in her own ways of thinking...not to mention a control freak with an uneducated mind. He didn't deserve to have such a wonderful son like you; you didn't deserve to have such an uncaring, uneducated, unloving, ignorant, twisted, barbaric, animalistic, insane, cruel, sick, ruthless, sadistic mother, so I must say that some people should never have children...and that beast of a mother is one of those people. That sicko of a mother should've gone to to prison or mental hospital for all those terrible crimes that she committed against you. You might want to try counselling.

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