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Mar 16, 2011
 Teianna:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You DO have a future. What W--- took from you was reprehensible, but it is replaceable in the sense that you CAN take back your power. But you can't do it alone. Please consider some form of counseling in order to help you deal with the repercussions of such a horrific childhood. Yes, you were betrayed by W---, but also by a school system that failed to act in a way that would keep you safe from harm. But don't ever forget that there was one person who step up and not only helped you, but made sure the authorities got involved. As for you friends, you can make new ones, but first you must learn to be a friend to yourself. Please seek out some help for yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 17, 2011
 Such horror
by: Anonymous

Teianna, I can't believe that your late mom left you and your brother in the so-called care of that sick, sadistic monster of a stepfather! He is so twisted, sadistic and messed up that he doesn't even know how to take care of himself, let alone be a stepfather to you guys. He doesn't know how to love even himself; all he ever knew was hate so he should've known better and loved and cherished you. Oh, and he is a coward too because only a coward would do such horrendous things like that to such innocent, defenseless little kids you guys once were. Oh, and that sadistic beast is wrong. You are not ugly; you are not worthless; you are not stupid; you are not fat; you are not lazy; you are not a good for nothing; you are beautiful, smart, articulate and worthy of love, dignity and respect, all of which you were denied of. Don't believe any of those lies that he was spewing. You and your brother are not to blame for his sadistic behavior; he is to blame because he chose to abuse you. You were the children; he was the adult; he had all the power and he misused it over you guys. Oh, and I'm glad that the woman you turned to for help called the cops on that psychopath because she is so sweet for doing that; I just hope that you and your brother are in a safe place now and that this sicko of a stepdad remains incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that he committed against you guys. I also hope that you and your brother will try counselling.
Mar 17, 2011
 New Beginning's NOW for ME
by: maurice

Yes, Teianna,for you, New Beginnigs at 33 years of age: Your cry for help and advice has been received by Darlene: She has shared her woman's heart with you in her loving, supporting, encourageing, and affirming words while acknowledgeing your abuse was horific at the hands of that Beast/Animal: He did not seem to have a spark of humanity in him for you: He certainly knew nothing of how to love and cherish you: What your dear Mom saw in him, you'll never know: her death at child birth will also remain a mystery: He destroyed childhood and teenage innocence: he preyed on your vunerability and also destroyed the tenderness of your beautiful body: TEIANNA, please oh please let go of those horrible memories: Be gentle and kind to yourself: I am certain you are gratefull to that woman who took you into her heart and her home a broken, bruised, frail fragile teenager: You were brave then to run away from that hell hole: Please be brave now too: Darlene's woman's heart has opened out to you in her words of love: support: affiration and advice: You'll be fine, just begin acting on her words to you: You are a big girl now: (WOMAN) you have a mind of your own: Take charge of your future and own destiny: Hi Tieanna let your Motto Be: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH it: that you are Tieanna; I believe in you: Darlene Believes in You Now you always believe in yourself: Human hearts speak to each other from a distance and they empatise with each other too especially if they have been abused: Tieanna: From this day have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Look in the mirror and say affriming things to and about yourself to begin with: Then find a friend or two your own age and gender and walk with them to find some form of counselling: You won't know the difference that will make in your life: It will put all you wrote so bravely and courageously on Darlene's site: Good on You TIEANNA: no negative attitude's only Positive ones: My MOTTO is I will: I can: I must etc Tieanna:
Mar 17, 2011
 Thanks for sharing
by: Anonymous

Healing takes time. Sharing your story is one of the steps to a healthier new you. Hope yout brother or sister has found a good home & that both of u are safe. Proud of you for sharing ; that takes great courage. I am a victom of incest, & I used to be forced to take scalding hot baths. I was so scared of the baths, that I wanted my puppy to be with me to make me feel ok & safe. I put the puppy in the tub, & he had a heart attack, besides burns. Sadly that stoped me having to take those hot baths anymore.
get yourself into a good support group in your area, & keep moving forard in your recovery. Hugs. MAc

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