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Sep 22, 2010
 Talyn:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Just because you have becoming what you call "domineering" doesn't necessarily protect you from being sexually assaulted. DO NOT put yourself in a situation where you are alone with a boy. You are at risk if you do. That doesn't mean if something happens it's your fault (it's NEVER the victim's fault), but you MUST act in a way that will help prevent a possible situation from happening. Like when you made sure you stayed close to grownups when I__ was around. You may not believe what I__ did to you affected you, but it has, and it will likely affect you as you get older. Please talk to your parents about some form of counseling. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Sep 24, 2010
 Stay SAFE: Be SAFE: Value and Respect your self WORTH
by: maurice

Talyn: You keep saying you are nieve but I believe you are anything but: You are a highly intelligent 15 year old: Clever and you now know more about your sexuality and your body: So respect both and be safe: Darlene certainly gave you loving heart feeling words for you to ponder on and learn from: She truly has your best interests at heart in the words she wrote to you: I am going to encourage you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes the most natural way to have that is to be part of team sports with your own age group and gender: You'll make real and true friends and have many caring aquaintances for life: Talyn there is safety in numnbers: Mix generally with your peer groups taking part in cultural activities and disco and dance away with them valueing your giuftedness and your tallents while sharing them with others: Have true and real friends who value and respect you for the wonderful teenager you are: Building a relationship and friendship means you respect yourself first: Always believe in yourself: Let your motto be I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: build up your Self Esteem: Think positive: act positive and be positive in all you do and say about yourself: Live well: laugh alot; Love much beginning with yourself: Hi Talyn: read Darlene's commemt and move on from there:
Sep 24, 2010
 listen and be safe
by: Anonymous

love you should listen to these words , if i as a child had an line to utter my feelings and had the courage to tell someone, then quite frankly my life would not have been a mess as it is. being over thirty years ago the damage has become unchangeable, you might think that its 30 years ago, but girl the scars never heal, the nightmares is still there, over time it got better , but it will never be gone. please be safe , and i hope that all parents protect there kids, from the hell i went through. please look for a sudden change in your child's behavior, as this is a major indication , that something is wrong.

God bless.

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