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Jan 19, 2012
 Stu:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Young children don't just start going to parks to seek out sexual activity. They are thrust into such situations as a result of child abuse of some kind. As a child you were neglected, plus likely a host of other abusive situations occurred, in all probability, sexual abuse. You can't blame your Self as a child. There's a reason children have parents. And the fact that the authorities knew what was going on and did nothing to get you out of that environment tells me they dropped the ball. You're looking at this all wrong. It wasn't about stopping "you", Stu, it was about changing the environment and stopping the offenders who would take advantage of you. Shame and blame is on the shoulders of those who offended you and on those who knew and did nothing. I strongly suggest you seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to deal with the lingering effects of the abuse you endured. You didn't deserve to be abused. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. I send you love, light and positive energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 19, 2012
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by: Rita M

Hi Stu,
It sounds like you have been really neglected and are looking for attention.I know you didn't want to sell yourself but it seems to you that there is no other way to get attention.You are worth more than that.You sound like you are strong enough you can reach out and get some councelling because you get proper feed back from the councellor.You deserve to get on the right track.
You sound like you are very young.Now is the time to reach out while you are young.The sooner the
better.Even older people go for help.There is really no certain time for help.It's when you are
ready.I hope the best for you.By what you have written you show strength just telling us your story.Reach out because you deserve peace and wellness because you are worth it.
Rita M

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