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Dec 11, 2012
 Paulette:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Clearly, your mother was sick and twisted. I'd go so far as to say demented. No one in their right mind could do such unspeakable acts to children. She is now a cruel and bitter old woman who through her own choices has left her Self without a relationship with a special daughter. Everything she taught you about your Self was a lie. Everything. You are not the terrible things she called you and you never will be. Always remember that, Paulette. Sometimes it is necessary to cut ties with our family, especially when the abuse continues. You couldn't control what she did to you as a child, but you can certainly control how you respond to her now. And of course, how you respond to others. I do hope you seek out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with the horrific abuse you endured at the hands of a deeply disturbed monster of a mother. You didn't deserve to be abused. You most definitely deserve help for the fact that you were. I send you love, light and healing energy, Paulette. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 11, 2012
 The horror
by: Anonymous

Paulette, I gotta' say that, to be honest, your story is a disturbing one.

Your so-called mother is a sad, sorry brute. She is, just for grabbing for a victim who will give her whatever she wanted, so she didn't have to take care of herself. Her behavior must've sent a strong message that she had no intention of helping herself/changing her dysfunctional life for any reason, no matter how nice you were to her. Although she can pretend sometimes, she just didn't care. Help yourself, not her; she's the adult who needs to help herself; if she refuses to help herself, that's her issue. For starters, never be alone with a users again.

You're not to blame for her sadistic, immature, ignorant behavior; she is to blame; you didn't cause her to abuse you; she chose to abuse you. I really hope you're in a safe place now; that you try counseling and that you look into reporting her; no more secrets can and will help put an end to the cycle of abuse and helplessness.

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