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May 17, 2011
 To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You've experience more violence than most people can even fathom. And now you are in a loving caring home. THAT'S the most important thing right now. And now you have friends. That's the second most important thing. The third is your decision to stop the cycle of abuse, the self-abuse. You can be so proud of yourself. Stay in school, keep your friends close and your new family even closer. Lean on them when you need to. I understand how you want your mother to be your mother. That might never happen. Her healing is her choice. Your healing is your choice. Just as you've chosen a path for yourself, your mother has as well. Focus on developing into the person you really want to be, and keep an open heart for the possibility that your mother may heal one day too. Not as an expectation; rather, as the idea that if it happens it happens. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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From Victim to Victory, a memoir
May 17, 2011
 So many crimes committed
by: Anonymous

You were given a raw, crappy deal because your so-called parents are so twisted and messed up in their own ways of thinking that they don't even know how to take care of themselves, not to mention be parents to you. Oh, and I know what it's like to have such a once-loving mother suddenly betray you to her slimy boyfriend because I am just as disgusted by her choice to join him in sadistically torturing and berating you; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. Oh, and when her beast of a boyfriend couldn't get what he and your so-called mom craved from you, which is utter and complete submission, he brutally squeezed to death your beloved and helpless mouse and forced you to watch...they are truly evil, sadistic and malicious and they should go to jail for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you because you did nothing wrong. Oh, and they are wrong. You are not evil; you are a good, beautiful person. Never believe any of those lies that they were feeding to you. Oh, and stealing your conditioner and ruining your toothbrush by scrubbing it around the toilet bowl and then sending you to school with messy hair and horrible hygiene is just as humiliating. If they didn't want to be there, then they should've had the courage to give you up for adoption and try going to rehab instead of sadistically abusing you. The path that they (and even your so-called dad) chose was and still is inexcusable. Oh, and you are not to blame for their sadistic behavior; they are to blame because abusers always choose to abuse. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you. Oh, and parents (especially mothers) who abuse their own daughters are one of the real abusers...the little beasts. Oh, and I'm glad that your friend and her parents are with you now because they are so sweet for doing that; I just hope that you will try counselling and that you start looking into reporting those beasts to the police.

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