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Apr 27, 2011
 To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

What is happening in your home is a form of emotional abuse, in particular terrorizing and witnessing family violence. Your father has serious problems that he's taking out on your mother, and on you as well. But your mother crossed a line when she confided in you about what is wrong in her life and marriage. You're her daughter, not her friend. And furthermore, I don't believe that parents have the right to in any way lower the other parent in the eyes of the child or adolescent. It cuts at the fabric of the relationship between the child and parent. What you discover and discern on your own is one thing, but your mother is not looking out for your best interests when one, she confides such things to you, and two, when she doesn't do what she must in order to keep you safe from harm. She has a lot of problems as well.

But no one here can really give you advice; that's not what this site is all about. It's a place where victims and survivors can share their stories in a safe place while remaining anonymous. It's a place where when possible, I (and oftentimes, other visitors) will leave supportive and encouraging comments. I do suggest you tell someone what's happening in your home. Consider contacting Kids Helpline in Canada at 1-800-668-6868. They are staffed with professionally trained counsellors who can help you with your options. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/home.asp

You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. You deserve to live in an environment that is loving and compassionate. You can't make anyone do something they aren't willing to do. You can only control what YOU do. Please reach out to resources that can help you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Apr 27, 2011
 noooooo
by: Undisclosed94

nooo my mom has no problems and i wrote on this site i was looking for comfort not you blaming my mom. the truth is that my mom is my hero i tell her everything that happens in my life and i forced her to tell me about my dad. Its not her fault and sorry im being stubborn i solve my bestfriend's problem all the time and pretty much i solve everyones problems!! soo im strong
and since this event in my life i wrote 18 songs and im currently writing a book called the friendship chain!! and now my dad is changing fpr the better after his near death expierence!!!

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