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Apr 17, 2011
 To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

First and foremost, I'm delighted that you see yourself in such a positive light and that you understand that you are not the lies your parents say you are. Secondly, you are a terrific sister. A very caring and loving sister. Lastly, just because Social Services didn't remove you from the home doesn't necessarily mean they did nothing. Obviously, if things are still bad at home, they didn't do enough. Or they skirted their responsibilities to you as the abused child. You do need someone to talk to about what's happening in your life. Please consider contacting one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. You most definitely don't deserve to be mistreated. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you are being mistreated. And you're so right when you say "never give up." Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Apr 18, 2011
 I'm Sorry
by: Anonymous

You parents are wrong. You are not useless; you are worthy of love, dignity and respect. You are not trash; you are beautiful. You are not a failure; you are strong and you are perfect just as you were. Something is seriously wrong with your parents and they need help. Oh, and that's not discipline; that's just abuse and torture. Oh, and you are not to blame for their nearly sadistic behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and they misused it over you, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. If they ever hurt you or your loving sister ever again, please tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you guys.
Apr 19, 2011
 CELEBRATE YOU: WHO ME:? ?? YES YOU:
by: maurice

You are worth celebrating: You are worth everything: In all the World there is only one you: There is only one person with your tallents: your expereinces: and your gifts: YOU'RE SPECIAL:
You're loved in spite of everything: SO LOVE YOURSELF: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH it. That you are you are a caring, loving, thoughtful, sister: Be brave, Have courage, Don't Quit: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: you new motto: I WILL: etc. Darlene has lovingly from her heart given you affirming words of encouragement: stay safe: Be safe: Your Parents have abused you in as you say in their understanding of what they call discipline: Great you copped they sure are very wrong having beaten you and made you feel small by their hurting sayings to about you: VERY wrong; You be the winner over them: One sure way of having real natural friends is by you having a healthy mind in a healthy body: This will mean getting out there with your friends/class mates/fellow students and like minded people your own age and gender: Your ssiter will benefit from your example: There is safety in numbers: Take Part in The Physical Education program at your school: Hi special one if you feel the need to share your feelings as you did here on Darlene site speak with a school counsellor or very kind and understanding teacher: I am certain you have a friend or two that you share your intimate and girlie feelings to: they are precious and will listen and care about your every feeling out of love, value and respect for you: Your their friend too: Read darlene's comment: take her words into more your heart then your head: Go to the mirror, hug and cuddle those words of her heart love words into yours: be gentle and kind on yourself and your beautiful body: soothe it now and then with scented oils and creams: Your new Motto: I Will: etc: Go for it you'll be a winner and so will your sister:

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