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Jun 16, 2010
 TELL someone...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. If you're pregnant, you'll be showing soon enough, which means assumptions are going to be made about who the father is and what's been going on. The trouble is, they will likely point the finger of blame on you rather than where it belongs: on your father the sex offender. You see, the last place they'll even think to look is at your father. But whether or not you are pregnant, the only way to stop the sexual abuse is to tell. So please tell, and do it now.

And just so you know, hon, this site is a safe haven for those who make decisions that don't necessarily fall into line with what others might thing. It is not the place to promote views about religious beliefs, which is why I've edited some of your comments out. I thank you for your understanding.

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Jun 17, 2010
 O precious and special Child of God and the universe
by: maurice

You are just one very special teenager: You have been sexually/physically abused by a very uncaring, unloving beast of a man: who does not deserve the name of Father: Please be safe: you are one very beautiful and wonderful girl: You are brave and courageous to decide to keep your baby if you happen to be pregnant: Darlene is one very special woman too and has given you words of affirmation and help should you wish to use them to get help: You sure need love and help in big doses right now: Please speak with a counsellor: a medical person to re-assure you how how special you truly are: Always believe in yourself: I am a precious child of God: I hope and pray you and your baby will be happy and healthy during you pregnancy: Take good care of yourself: Be gentle and kind to yourself and your body: It was abused by a beast of a man: Who took away your dignity in your tender years: Get safe and really caress that body of yours: Soothe it with nice creams and hug love into it: Build up your self-esteem: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: That you are, now take Darlene's loving/caring words and act on them for your own peace of mind: She knows exactly the help and love you need right now: She has a woman's heart and I am certain she's right you will know if you are pregnant quite soon: Have a friend your own age and gender so you can talk the intimate talk Girlie/teenage talk with each other: A precious gift which you deserve NOW: Your Mom or extended family of Aunts will re-assure you and love and cherish you for the very special teenager you are: You are gifted: you are tallented: you are Intelligent so stick with education: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body:
Jun 24, 2010
 You are so BRAVE: NO ONE should go through that
by: Briegeen

My name is Briegeen and i just wanted to say get out of there as fast as you can...tell your grandparents your aunts, uncles who ever you can even the police so they can protect you and your baby....i wanted to say that you are soooo soo soo brave to keep that child and it is a very good choice but obviously in your head you dont want to keep it but you are a very brave girl....i really think you should get out of there as fast as you can to live your life better than you think you will while you are in that place...please dont keep cutting yourself as you wouldnt want you little baby to see your scars and ask you why you did it.....always protect your baby and never EVER let anyone harm her and i no that you will be the greatest mum ever as you have been through everything and you would want the best for your little baby.... i no you dont know me and i dont know you but i am very proud of you telling your story not alot of people tell stories like yours and you got the courage to tell it xxxxxxxxxx
Jul 01, 2010
 Tell someone.
by: Amira

You need to tell someone. Otherwise, the abuse will keep going on. That man who is your "Father" is not your father but a beast who needs to be put away. If you are pregnant, you do have options that only you can choose what is right for you. Just remember, THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Don't you ever let anyone make you think that because they have no idea what you have been through. I really hope you tell someone and get help. No one deserves to go through this.
Jul 27, 2010
 Yooou Are Not Alone
by: Anonymous

Sweetie , If You Are Pregnant You Have To Tell Sooner or later. you cant just not tell please tell someone so you can have correct care for you and the baby sweet love
- anonymous

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