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Feb 06, 2013
 To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

If you saw you the way I see you: you're prefect as you are. You're beautiful. You're smart and articulate and oh so worthy! When you call your Self down or treat your Self with anything less than dignity and respect, you take the torch from your abusers and holding it high. Who You Really Are is so much more than you can imagine. The abusers have no credibility, so don't give them any by allowing your Self to think anything but wonderful thoughts about your Self. Crying can be very cleansing. Weakness, no. A break in the soul, no way. The soul isn't capable of breaking. Crying can be a release. It opens up the floodgates so that all the crap that you're hanging onto can be released. And when all that crap (and it is crap) is released, then you can focus on getting relief for your Self, thinking better-feeling thoughts. And then keep going with more better-feeling thoughts. And then keep going some more. You are not flawed in the way you think you are. You are a wonderful spiritual being here having a human experience. And though the experiences you've been having are not what you want in your life, what you do have is the ability to change how you respond to what is happening to you. When you change your response, you change everything. When you were born, the world became a better place for it. And it will continue to BE a better place as long as you stay in it. And it will be an even BETTER place as you choose to see your Self as you soul sees you. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 19, 2013
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by: Anonymous

I came to this site a few years ago, beleive me i was feeling low and quite frankly not of any worth whatsoever. Through the encouragement of Darlene and the people here i spoke to one teacher, just one. He was the only one who had ever encourage me to do better, at the time i thought he hated me. He probably saved my life. please please speak to somebody you find help in the people who you think hate you but they are just pushing buttons to help you succeed. Often the people you can trust are those who you hate because they only want the best for you.
Mar 05, 2013
 Dont give up
by: Anonymous

Im 16 too, and have been sexually abused so i know how you feel but you have to tell someone. I did and it made my life a whole lot better. Because then you can get help and move on with your life. Like i said i know how you feel ive even attemped sudicide before (thank god my boyfriend caught me) Im now alot better i still have nightmares about it but im better. Get help and you will get better too. Dont cut yourself that is just more pain you have to go through. I dont know you but i can honestly say that you are beautiful no matter what :)
Mar 22, 2013
 kids help phone
by: Anonymous

Im so sorry to hear about your abuse! You NEED to call kids help phone before you do anything like trying to kill yourself.

From Darlene - Webmaster Anonymous, I very much appreciate that you want to help Name Undisclosed140. However, this person has not disclosed where their location is, therefore there is no way to know what phone number to provide.

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