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May 09, 2013
 To Name Not Disclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your brother was disturbed long before you asked him for his help and he demanded "payment". What he did is on HIM, not you. Your feelings toward him are legitimate regardless of his current state.

What happening to you now as you move through the various ages and stages of your life is that your inner being is showing you that YOU matter. You're coming into your own, and as you find yourself, there will be more compulsion to deal with what you endured. I strongly encourage you to act on that. Most colleges have counsellors available. Reach out for that kind of help. You didn't deserve to be abused and assaulted. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. You're worthy of dignity and respect and love. Start by treating yourself with that dignity and respect and love; and do the most loving thing you've ever done for yourself...get the help you need. You really and truly are worthy. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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From Victim to Victory, a memoir
May 09, 2013
 You are special!
by: Anonymous

Your life is almost a carbon copy of mine. I am now 42 and still deal with feelings of imperfection, guilt and unworthiness. I have been married, widowed, remarried and divorced again. I am slowly learning that self worth is something learned at a very young age and if that is damaged then self imposing thoughts cloud how others actually see you. I am so sorry, I know the pain, I know the guilt just know that you are not alone and it isn't too late to get help. Talk to someone, write, verbalize the pain and just know that who you are is very different than how you feel about yourself! You are worthy, you are special and I truly hope that you will find peace in knowing you mean more than you know!

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