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Feb 18, 2011
 Miss E:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand your anger and hostility, and you're inability to forgive your mother. I learned a very long time ago that allowing myself to feel the pain and the emotions attached to that pain, really feel them fully, resulted in those emotions letting go of me. When that happened, everything changed. Forgiveness fell into place. Not that what happened was okay or what my own mother did was okay; it wasn't okay and never would be. But what happened was that forgiveness allowed ME to move forward without having to live with never-ending anger and hostility. That's what I want for you. You see, forgiveness is for YOU, not the person who either enabled abuse or abused you directly. I strongly urge you to seek out some form of counseling in order to help you in that regard, Miss E. And thank goodness for your father. He's a hero in all this, but so are you for telling him. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 03, 2011
 Men beating or abusing women I abhor More so if they abuse their children
by: maurice

Yes, I am aware women beat up men too: My heart went out to you and your mother even though she was not a good woman/mother. bad, bad mother: It still does not give that Sickp of the male speciaes the right to beat her to pulp or break her nose in front of you who beautiful child: Great you have a loving, caring father who cherishes you: That is your stepping stone to great ness: Always believe in yourself I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: Now read Darlene empowering words to you and indeed to me in her comment to you: She sure helps to put one's abuse and pain into perspective: Think about counselling: It will work wonders for you and you'll be better able to live your life to the full: Let go, be strong, with the help of counselling you will:

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