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Dec 19, 2012
 Michelle:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

This is a safe haven for survivors of abuse to relay their stories and be heard. I've frequently posted many parts to visitors' stories. And just for the record, your sarcasm IS appreciated. Clearly, this has been a coping skill for you, but it's a healthy one, as long as it isn't used to stop from dealing with the feelings and emotions of what you endured. Your parents were deeply and sadistically disturbed. You understand this and also understand that P-- used countless religious denominations as power and control plays. All this tells me that you're highly intelligent. You also have quite the sense of humour. We all need humour in our lives. Having said that, I urge you to seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with the repercussions of growing up in such a twisted environment. You deserve that kind of help, Michelle. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 19, 2012
 Such uncontrolled sadism
by: Anonymous

Michelle,your story is an extremely disturbing one. I really hope you're out of that house now...and thank goodness you survived!

What a sad, sorry bunch they are, just for grabbing for a victim who will give them what they want, so they wouldn't have to take care of themselves. Their behavior must've sent a strong message that they have no intention in helping themselves/changing their dysfunctional lives for any reason at all, no matter how nice you are to them. Even though they can pretend sometimes, they just didn't seem to care. Help yourself, not them; they are adults who need to help themselves; if they're not going to help themselves; it's their issue.

You might want to recognize their unhealthy behavior in order to help yourself as well as others who happen to be in the same situation as yourself. For starters, never be alone with abusers again.

My brother, too, is jealous of me because he thinks that I'm my mom's favorite kid. Parents are supposed to love their children the same. Anyway, you're not to blame for their sadisitic behavior. Again, I hope you're in a safe place now and that you try counseling because no more secrets can and will help put an end to the cycle of abuse and helplessness.
Dec 19, 2012
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by: Anonymous

From Darlene - Webmaster: Michelle, and my other visitors to this thread, I've deleted 3 separate comments from this particular commenter who leaves posts that are judgmental and wholly inappropriate. I cannot block her, but I'll continue to delete her comments before they ever go live on the site.

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