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Jan 23, 2013
 Maxine:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

What your mother said to you will only remain with you for the "rest of your life" if you allow it to. Instead of believing the lies, lies from a woman with virtually NO credibility, I might add, tell your Self the truth: you're worthy of dignity and respect and love, you ARE lovable, you ARE beautiful. When you replace the lies with the truth, healing will truly begin. I send you love, light and healing energy, Maxine. Thank you for sharing more of your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 23, 2013
 Such uncontrolled sadism Part 1
by: Anonymous

Maxine, your so-called mother is deeply troubled and sadistic. I really hope you're out of that house now because she's just too dangerous to be trusted; thank goodness you survived! Anyway, I can't believe your dad would abandon you to that sick monster and allow her to beat and berate you everyday; how dare he! I'm pretty sure that she probably must've set you up for failure; that isn't about teaching you any responsibilities; that's just all about torture, power and control. She's a truly manipulative person and I'd hate to even believe that she really wanted you to fail just so she could keep controlling you. If you're still with her, then you could be in further danger; she could and would continue to brutalize you; she's proven that already just by those nasty injuries that she inflicted upon you. She has the mindset that you are to be submissive and obedient at all costs; please get out that house; PLEASE GET OUT NOW!!! Next time she lays a hand on you ever again, please consider reporting her to the cops ASAP because children are gifts to treasure, not to abuse. Oh, and she's wrong. you're not disgusting; you are beautiful; you are wonderful. You're none of those soul-stripping lies she called you. It's not your fault that she hurt you; you are important; you are lovable.
Jan 23, 2013
 Such uncontrolled sadism Part 2
by: Anonymous

Some people who treat others the way you were treated often do it out of jealousy because they could never be such a shining star that you are. You're a star! You didn't deserve to be beaten; you only deserved love, protection, dignity and respect, all of which you were sadistically denied of. Oh, and it's wrong for her to try and stop you from having friends. You know why she tried? Well, she tried because she was so jealous that she didn't want you to be happy and have the perfect friends she never had; she wanted you to be miserable, just like her; she's miserable because she chose to be that way. I can relate; my dad, too, chose to be miserable and he tried to keep me from having friends because he thinks they're a bad influence on me, though I managed to make friends anyway. Again, it's not your fault that she hurt you; you are not to blame for her sadistic, sexist behavior; she is to blame. You didn't cause her to abuse you; she CHOSE to abuse you; she's only blaming you for her own sadism because she refuses to accept her own responsibilities. I really hope you're in a safe place now, that you try counselling and that you look into reporting her.
Feb 03, 2013
 So little love shown; Seriously, get out of that house!
by: Anonymous

I hope you leave that house as soon as you can, Maxine; you've suffered enough. Your parents are mentally ill and deeply disturbed. All those years of trying to please them (and even going so far into taking care of your brother out of love) and not receiving love. Once you get away from them, your healing can (and will) start at its earnest.

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