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Mar 10, 2011
 Marci:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your brother moving back to your hometown has definitely triggered all that he made you endure. Triggering is not unusual as we go through various ages and stages of our lives, and as events transpire that open up old scars. I learned a very long time ago that burying pain only serves to manifest in other areas of one's life. Please consider some form of counseling in order to help you deal with the effects of what your brother did, and the betrayal you experienced by your sister when you reached out to her and she didn't believe you. Please don't keep it inside any longer. The only hope you have of the pain letting you go is if you confront rather than circumvent it. You're worthy of that kind of help, Marci. You didn't deserve to be abused. You certainly deserve help now that you have. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 11, 2011
 Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your Brother
by: maurice

Marci: Darlene as always has from her womans heart given you real loving supporting encourageing words of advice on the way forward in your life from NOW: I was 33 whem I made a real sense of my abuse: I began to put all that happened to me in perspective with the help of a counsellor and good and true friends: Marci: say, I can do it: I will do it: I must do it because I am worth it: I am gifted, tallented, inteeligent, with greatness and goodness in me to live my life to the full in LOve of myself and those who value and respect me: Your brother abused you: Your sister was indifferent and choose her brother the abuser before you: She sure let you down big time: Hi, there is hope, you begin talking with your one true friend or two if your lucky: with them put into action the advice and love Darlene showered on you in her comment: She heard your asking for help: maybe cry for help: whether or which she values and respects you were abused: She wants what is the best for you: Marci: I want it too: but most importantly do you want it for yourself???? I do> I do> I do: your special and you sure are WORTH it: go for it:
Mar 15, 2011
 To Marci with love
by: Anonymous

I'm sorry that you had to endure the torture and abuse that you endured at such a young age. I can just imagine the courage it took for you to finally open up to your Sister about what your Brother did to you and then for her to not believe you. I know that had to crush you. I have never told anyone in my Family about what went on in my own childhood. I can't even imagine my secret coming out to my two Sisters. My Sisters are younger then I am and I left my childhood home at 16 so I wasn't around while they grew up I often feared that my Brother was abusing them but never had the nerve to ask them. I did tell a therapist about my Brother and it helped to be heard and validated. Please seek out the help that you deserve. You have a long life ahead of you and you don't have to carry this nightmare with you through the rest of your life. I hope that you feel a little better sharing your story and know that you are not alone as there are many of us out here that care.

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