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Mar 19, 2010
 Macy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm so glad you are now in a safe place with your dad and your stepmom. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 20, 2010
 So many crimes committed...
by: Anonymous

Macy, what your mother did to you is pathetic and ungrateful because she is truly twisted, sick, sadistic, cruel and warped in her own ways of thinking...not to mention a control freak. She certainly didn't deserve to have a beautiful child like you, but most of all, Macy, you certainly didn't deserve to have such a cruel mother. I am glad that you are with your dad and stepmother now because they are so sweet for doing that!
Mar 22, 2010
 Ever so young to have endured so much
by: maurice

Your story is horrendous reading Macy. None of it your doing, or your fault, but a bad, bad mother and all who allowed her be so abusive of your dignity and respect as her child. Those who stood idly by were participants in your abuse. There are I believe Animal insticts as part of our human make up. These were the insticts that allowed your mother do what she did on you. No sane thinking human being would do that to an Animal not alone an innocent and vunerable child birthed by a mother who did not care: Her own flesh and blood her child that she allowed grow within her womb while she continued not caring about herself or her well being. Tieing you up, having you in strarnge positions straight jacket wise. You were so innocent, so vunerable, so used and abused, so beautiful, so special, I am safe now, I can get on with living my life in a safe loving environment. Macy I sincerely wish you the best: Please be gentle and kind with yourself. Don't judge yourself too harshly. It was never your fault. Bad, Bad people did horrible things to you. Get help, get counselling, allow your Dad and newfound mother love you, care for your every need. I am a big girl now I can take charge of my life knowing I was molested and abused. My rights and my dignity were damaged by such Abuse. Please begin to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Please get all the help needed medically to erase those scars from those knifes. The pain of seeing those each day you wake up are a reminder of that Animalistic insticts of a mother who did not care. Begin to love yourself, I am sure you have a real friend who love you for who you are NOW. Be Brave, stay strong now that you are on your road to recovery after abuse. Macy Counselling will help you, don't be afraid to tak out your feelings with people who really love and care about you. A teacher, your school counsellor, your friend. Your mother has the cheek wanting you to still acknowledge her with her visit's: Don't lower yourself by attacking her, just ignore her, she should learn why you are ignoring her: she should ashamed of herself living her life as if she never did anything to you. I am sure many around you in your life know what damage she did to you. Hopefully the will help her to acknowledge the awful abuse she did on you.
Mar 22, 2010
 Macy...each day now is a new & better day
by: Mac

Macy; So proud of you! You are not & never were the awful things that you endured physiclaly, verbally, or emotionally. Staying away from her, & getting yourself healthy & whole is what you gotta do girl. I go by Mac, as I think of the strentgh,& power to move forward through anything,like a Mac Truck, one with a good purpose, & not just a dumper. My name is Mercedes....believe me....I've Benz tru what u've been tru,lived tru it,& finally after a very long time, over 30 plus years, began to finally walk into the light of recovery.Good for you that you've been able to begin this journey sooner. Spent along time in denial,dis-sociation, isolation, anger, etc., finding comfort ,not really, but sought comfort for the pain in more abuse,food, alcohol.Still walking the journey, have had counseling, support,etc. Proud to say that I'm finally walking into the light of recovery with my head held high, not buried deep into my chest.Not only living this new life better, but not hiding in denail or isolaltion,anger & isolation, manipulation or the need to be in control of others, no longer need to find comfort in meaningless sex, over-eating, or alcohol.This August not only will I have really started walking the healthier recovery path, but I will have done so sober & abstinent for 2 years. Every day is a new day ,with hope. Keep moving forward dear friend!

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