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Apr 16, 2011
 Katherine:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Most definitely, there's a thing called sibling abuse; and you're in the thick of it. Your brother has serious anger problems; and you're taking the brunt of that anger. He's not only emotionally abusing you, he's physically abusing you. And if you parents won't step in to protect you from his assaults, you need to disclose to someone who will. What he's doing is illegal, and you're in a dangerous situation with him. The fact that he calls you those nasty names tells me he has no respect for you (likely no respect for women in general). You must stand up for yourself, but not directly to him; that's too risky. Please contact Kids Helpline in Canada at 1-800-668-6868. They are staffed with professionally trained counsellors who will help you with your options. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/home.asp

Just remember, you do not have to keep living in fear like this. If your parents refuse to step up to the plate, they are enabling the abuse he's inflicting on you. Their job is to protect you; and right now, they're failing at that job. Please tell someone, because you don't deserve to be mistreated in any way. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Apr 18, 2011
 The Horror
by: Anonymous

Katherine, I can't believe that your parents would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick, sadistic, misogynistic, ignorant monster of a brother and even allow him to beat, torture and berate you everyday...how dare they! That's not even baby-sitting; that's just torture and I'm sure that something's seriously wrong with your brother. If he didn't want to be there, then he should've had the courage to leave instead of sadistically abusing you in this way. The path that he and your parents chose is inexcusable. Oh, and he is wrong. You are not stupid; you are smart and articulate. You are not a b**** (please excuse my French!); you are a nice, sweet, beautiful girl. You are not a fat pig; you are not messy; you are perfect just as you were. You are not selfish; you are kind. You are not worthless; you are worthy of love, dignity and respect. You are not pathetic; you are strong. Don't ever believe any of those lies he is spewing. He is a truly sadistic, uncontrolled, inhumane beast and a coward because only cowards would so such things to such a helpless little girl you once were. You deserved so much better than what he did to you; you don't need your terrible, sadistic, ignorant monster of a brother; you don't need to spend any time nor emotion on such a sexist person who denies the fact that women are equal to men; in fact, all men and women are created equally. Oh, and mocking you and laughing at you for crying after you had to lock yourself in the bathroom really shows me how uneducated and ignorant he really is. Oh, and you are not to blame for his sadistic behavior; he is to blame because he chose to abuse and torture you. He had all the power and he misused it over you, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. Please, Kahterine, please tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you. Oh, and don't ever let that sicko of a brother destroy you.

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