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Dec 21, 2010
 Jessie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your uncle may well have also been molested by your grandfather. That's not an excuse for what he did, but a possible explanation. Sounds as though there was some serious problems in your family. What's important to understand is that none of what happened was your fault, and it wasn't your sister's fault either. You were both children, vulnerable children. And the fact that you didn't believe your sister is something that you must stop blaming yourself for. You are applying more mature values to what you did and did not do as a little child. I understand why you're doing that, but you need to stop doing it. Treat yourself better than that. Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse and the repercussions. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And you need to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 22, 2010
 u are brave and strong!
by: liz

you are verry brave in my family i had 2 uncles that were sexually abusive and a cousin who was an adult married with kids and he tried to sexually touch my adult sister at my grandma's house in her room laying on the bed with me right there in the room. i know how u feel to come from a sick family u are not alone!
Dec 22, 2010
 Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Hiya Jessie G: At 16 your are a very mature inteeligent thinking adolecent and young woman: You know NOW that beast of an uncle and Grandpa did your harm when the used your innocence to molest and sexually abuse you: Great you found The Darlene Site: You can start believeing in yourself NOW: Yes Today: She has given you her heartfelt words of encouragement, love and support: Affirming you by telling you NONE of what they did to you was your fault: Stay in Education Jessie G: Have ahealthy mind in a healthy body: Start living your life by taking part in sporting and cultural activities with your fellow students and girls your own age and gender: Jessie G I believe it is important to have a real friend your own age and gender to confide in: Even two: True friends are different then your natural, normal boy/girl relationships: Don't be afraid, but be safe and in control, Love and respect yourself and your body and help others in a relationship to be respectful of you as you are of them: Choose your friends well: LET YOUR MOTTO BE I will: I can: I must: because I am WORTH it: What am I??? I am WORTH it: Always believe in yourself: Now Jessie G one sure way to put what your uncle and Grand pa (BeastS) did to you in perspective is go for counselling: You'll be a winner and successful in your life: have no fear: Be part of Football/Basketball/Hockey/softball Team: You are gifted; You are tallented with leadership qualities: Share them be a team captain: Team sports I know and beleive are the safest and surest way of having and making Natural genuine and true friends for life: Be gentle and kind on yourself: Have a good mirror image of yourself build up your self esteem and confidence: Hi Jessie G Darlene gave you her heart feeling words act on them to begin loving the me in you: I LOVE ME:

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