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Feb 16, 2011
 To H:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your stepfather was sick and twisted and disgusting, but what your mother did, enabling him and essentially opening the door for physical, emotional and sexual abuse, was unconscionable. Punishing you for what happened to her was indefensible. I agree with your message: If a woman becomes pregnant as a result of rape and cannot see and treat the child in a loving way, then give up the baby. It's never the baby's fault for being conceived and then being born. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 17, 2011
 A willing enabler for a mother...and a disgusting pig of a stepfather
by: Anonymous

H, I can't believe your mom would willingly abandon you to the so-called care of that sick monster of a stepdad! How dare she! Shame on her for running away from you all the time instead of protecting you from that beast! Your so-called stepdad is a truly disgusting pig and a pervert...and he should be locked up in prison for all those terrible crimes that he committed against you. As for your mom, again, I am just as disgusted by her reactions towards you trying to turn to her for help and protection from that sicko; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. Oh, and whatever they did to you wasn't your fault (and never will be). You are not to blame; they are to blame. You were the child; they were the adults. They had all the power and they misused it over you. You did not deserve to be mistreated in any way. You don't need you terrible, disgusting, ignorant monster of a stepdad; you don't need to spend any of your time with your uncaring "mom" who refused to protect you; you deserved so much better than what your so-called parents did to you; they did not deserve you in their lives. However, I'm glad that you're in a safe place now; I just hope that you try counselling and that you call the police on your so-called dad for raping and bruising you as well as on your mom for refusing to protect you.
Feb 22, 2011
 just a response
by: H

No i gave the wrong impression he never raped me.He would always just walk in when he new i wasnt dressed.and just watch and stare,He always had a strange look on his face.Now the reason why i did leave when i left home was because i had a strange feeling, That may have been his next step there was no way i was sticking around for that.It was just a feeling.And that day i did leave it was proven by moms actions she was'nt goin to stop any of his actions if he did.
Feb 22, 2011
 Terrible
by: A

That is a very sad childhood. Anyone would be lucky to have you in their life, I'm sure. If you have a family, I'm sure you give them all the happiness in the world. What your step-father did to you was wrong, just terrible. And shame on your mother for just turning the other way when you needed her the most. They should have never had kids. But I am very glad to hear you left your parents, your abusive ex-husband and have found an amazing partner!
Jun 29, 2011
 Thanks
by: H

I do want to take the time out to thank u guys for taking the time to comment on my page.You re all right i didnt deserve any of it.Like Darlene i found myself abusing my own self,in high school from all this.I was anorexic and bolemic,I started cutting myself with anything sharp,i have a big scars on my thighs from where i went to far from cutting,tried suicide many times guess i didnt take enough pills thank god cause im still here.I would wake up sicker thena dog from all those pills.I do get severe nightmares still but it lessons as time goes by.but then something will trigger the nightmares back.Sometimes i do wonder withthe nigtmares if more happened and i dont remember.I was diagnosed with bad memmory loss as a child so its possible .It is hard for me to remember two days ago sometimes.The doctores say for me when something bad happens i automatically forget.its my bodies way of protecting myself.I often wondered why the doctores never tried to figure out what i was protecting myself from.Why i dont remember most of my childhood.I thank god everyday i am alive,I am out of there,and happy with my children.When i got pregnant with my first daughter i stopped hurting myself all together the anorexia and bolimic part was hard to beat.I just kept telling myself i needed to eat to have a healthy child.There where times during my pregnancy i wanted to.But i stayed strong did the right thing.after she was born i never went back to it .I knew it was time to start healing.

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