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Feb 04, 2012
 To FW:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Forgiveness is for your benefit, but that benefit is to be able to say to your Self that you will no longer be controlled by the anger, hostility and rage. When forgiveness is done for the purpose of getting those people to love us, it's because we don't love our Selves. It means that our self-worth is based on how others feel about us. FW, your self-worth is automatic. It is not tied into what ANY person thinks, says or does. When we forgive our abusers for the sake of their love, we are essentially blaming our Selves for the abuse we endured. Nothing could be further from the truth. You were NOT to blame. You were, and still are, completely lovable. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect and love. Start by treating your Self with that dignity and respect and love. Try not to think in terms of "fixing" what happened to you. Think in terms of healing and recovery, and walking along that path. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with the emotions you are experiencing as a result of what you lived through as a child. You didn't deserve to be abused. You definitely deserve help for the fact that you were. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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Feb 07, 2012
 The Horror
by: Anonymous

FW, what sick, sadistically insane, deluded parents you had to beat and berate you 24/7...how dare they! That's not discipline; that's just torture. Beating you, locking you up in your room for a month without any toys, TV, fresh air and sunlight and then forcing you to cook and clean are just enough to throw those horrific, poor excuses of humans to prison for a long time.

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