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Oct 28, 2009
 You failed at NOTHING...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Chelsea, you did not fail at anything! Don't EVER believe that lie. You were victimized by a sick excuse for a human being, and further ignored and neglected by a mother who is clearly not in her right mind. Please read my comment to the question on the following page on this site A question about involuntary sexual arousal. Although somewhat different than your situation, my response may help you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 29, 2009
 From Victim to Victory. I'm the winner NOW
by: marice

Chelsea R great you arrived on Darlene's site to tell your real and true story of what happened you in your innocent and vunerable state as a child/teenager/adolecent. Darlene's words to you are real, empowering, encouraging, supporting, simple but honest. Read them again, Chelsea R you did not fail at anything, don't YOU ever believe that, From my sensitive reading of your story how right she is. You were thoughtful for others I-E your sister and brother you tried the best that you knew at that time to protect them from that savage, sick excuse of a human being as Darlene rightly puts it. He was a STEP-FATHER The more I hear and read what Step-Fathers have done to children Fathered by another male. I cringe, my heart goes out to the child victims at their hands. Especially when their mothers cannot and won't love their children enough to banish such a sicko from her and their lives. Your mother was weak, powerless in safe guarding you, your sister and your small brother from that brute of the male species. Chelsea R your 18 now, in a safe place, with friends, a good job, Look in the MIRROR and scream to the highest mountain I'M THE WINNER, I'M THE WINNER, That B etc is not going to ruin my life. Hug that beautiful body of yours over and over again, don't be afraid, it ain't silly take ownership of it it is yours. love it NOW soothe it, be gentle with it, care for it, always leave the mirror with the feel good looks and innner peace and calm about your beautiful self. You have a friend or too allow them to hug it too. Trust and rspect yourself first and slowly begin to trust those around you. Hi Chelese R if there is the opportunity sit down with a professional like a Therapist, Councellor, coach, they will build up your Self Esteem and help you make real sense of Darlene's words You did not fail at anything, Don't ever believe that, I was not to blame, it was not my fault. When your brother and sister see you happy and living your life to the full then you're the winner over that Sick Excuse of a Human Being. I can, I will, I must just for wonderful and beautiful me. There is goodness and greatness in me let it grow, mature and blossom out of you Chelsea. Think Positive, Act Positive, Be Positive in all you do with your life from NOW. live well, laugh alot, love much. Go for it Chelsea R.
Oct 29, 2009
 A willing enabler for a mother and a slimy pedophile for a stepfather
by: Anonymous

Chelsea, I really hope you're in a safe place and that your slimy excuse of a stepfather will get held accountable for all those disgusting and terrible crimes that he committed against you and your brother and sister because you guys (you and your siblings, of course!) really did nothing wrong. Hvae you tried counselling? Be brave, Chelsea, and stay strong!
Nov 05, 2009
 child abuse hater is sickened by this man
by: child abuse hater

first id like to say you quoted 'who am i now'
well im hear to say u r CHELSEA and nothing is gonna change that.

i feel bad for wat has happened to you and your sister and brother i would never dream that upon anyone, i feel disgusted that there are people out there who could do something like that to there own children, sexualy abusing and physicaly abusing children should not happen to any child EVER.

i hope someday that dirt bag father ov yours gets wat he deserves and hope your mum can sort her life out.

child abuse hater is by you and your brother and sister all the way and i strongly believe you will all turn out to be great people and not like your father, and to be honest i think that he doesnt deserve the title of father.

have a good life and if u can try and forget your traumatic childhood you did not deserve it.

hope my comment was supportive in anyway.
Nov 11, 2009
 counselling
by: Anonymous

Hi,
Just to say I'm too really sorry what happened to you. A very similar thing over the same period of time happened to me. Now I'm now 33 with a lovely husband and two kids. I tried to put all this things behind me, but now my kids are getting to the same age as I was when the abuse started, and some marital problem with my husband everything came to the surface again. I just had my first counselling and I'm glad I did. I didn't thing I needed help, but I think I have to find peace, and this will help me.
Please think about this, a counsellor could help you to to get your selfesteem, your life back. Hope it will help me.
Good luck, wish you every happiness

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