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May 18, 2011
 Cassie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You were raped and abandoned and you're still here; that shows how strong you really are. In that strength there is something else to understand: Victims are NEVER to blame. Period. End of story. As for why you didn't tell, victims don't tell because of fear on many levels. That doesn't make it the victim's fault. Ever. Fault always lies with the abuser because the abuser chooses to abuse. You were a child, a small child. Consider this, if you found out your daughter was abused at 6 years old, would you be likely to blame HER...probably not. Because you'd realize that at 6 years old she was incapable of protecting herself or stopping the abuse. I repeat, not telling does not mean the abuse is the fault of the victim. Victims are never to blame. Always remember that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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May 19, 2011
 be brave: Be Strong: Love your beautiful Self
by: maurice

Cassie: That you are and will be for the rest of your life: Your story it is so inhuman; so unreal and yet it all happened to you: No wonder you still live with the effects of it: It is unimagineable in my mind and heart that an innocent six year old had to endure the pain of rape and sexual hurt at the hands of a beast: He was one bad bad male not worth of the name: Yes, Cassie alot of what I would do with hios likes is unprintable here out of respect For you< Darlene and her great site: Your baby is your life NOW you'll be a great mother: Be safe: stay safe: surround yourself with good and true friends: Teens your own age and gender (real friends) whom you can trust with your intimate feelings and who will advice and help you how to deal with them: Cassie this may seem strange but do try to have ahealthy mind in a healthy body: This will mean being out and about freeing your mind up being active and alive with likeminded friends and team mates taking part in sporting and cultural activities: It will open up a wholen new world of thinking and being for you and that loving, caring, respectful, valueing boyfrind: He needs to have a healthy mind in a healthy body too; Cassie: Darlene comment to you personally is from a woman's heart who has turned her pain of abuse into empowering herself and all her many visitors: She's proved there is alife to be lived after abuse: Start living your life to the full: Live well: Laugh Often: Love much: Be gentle and kind to yourself and keeping being gentle on that beaustiful body of your: Look in the mirror say all nice things about it make those parts abused by that beast ever so tender and beautiful: eb gentle:

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