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Jun 05, 2011
 Anonymous:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You've taken a great first, and even second step along the road to healing and recovery. When we give up on the idea that we can change the past, it changes how we deal with things in the Present moment. I learned a long time ago that we don't let go of our past or the horrors of our childhood; rather, they let go of us when we bring them to the light of understanding. I've also found that the work of Byron Katie (Google her name for more information) uses what I see as a transformational paradigm for healing of all types. Just keep an open mind to the process and actually do the work she advocates. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jun 05, 2011
 Such uncontrolled sadism
by: Anonymous

You were given a raw, crappy deal because your so-called parents were so twisted and messed up in their own ways of thinking that they didn't even know how to take care of themselves; not to mention be parents to you. They didn't know how to love even themselves; all they ever knew was hate, so they should've known better and loved and cherished you. Oh, and they were truly sadistic brutes too because only sadists would do such things like that to such a helpless child you once were. Oh, and kicking you out of the house for having migraines, berating you for being sick, biting you, beating you with the comb, washing your mouth with soap and torturing you is a really cowardly thing to do. Why some parents abuse their own children, I will never understand. Oh, and most people who treat others the way you were treated often do it out of jealousy because they could never be such a shining star that you are. Oh, and as for your sadistic monster of a mother, shame on her for running away from you instead of protecting you from her beast of a husband and that pervert of a neighborhood boy! I am just as disgusted by her reactions towards you getting offended; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. If they didn't want to be there, then they should've had the courage to give you up for adoption instead of sadistically abusing you. The path that they choose was inexcusable...and they should've been locked up in prison for all those terrible crimes tat they committed against you because you did nothing wrong. Oh, and human kindness doesn't mean weakness; in fact, human kindness is a natural instinct...and an important one too. You are not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they were and still are to blame because they chose to abuse and offend you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you. Oh, and I'm glad that you're in a safe place now; I hope that you try counselling.
Jun 13, 2011
 Hold myself
by: girl child number four

I wish that i could hold myself and comfort the little baby girl i used to be. Go back into time dead and gone yet so fresh in my mind. Tormented daily by new bloody scratches and sores i inflict upon myself. i wish i could rescue her that was me. I cry for you but cant cry for me. I wish I could go back thru time and rescue you too. I swear i would. i swear i would kill them. Thank you lord God that I cant go back in time...

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