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Apr 28, 2011
 To Anonymous:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You don't have to suffer alone. Reach out for resources that are available to you in your community. Find support groups for victims and survivors of sexual abuse. You said in one segment of your story that you didn't tell anyone. You also said later on that your family knew but did nothing. The question to ask yourself is whether or not ALL of them really did know. Ask yourself, is it possible that some did not know. They probably should have known, but did they really know. Talk to your mother and father if that's possible. Ask them the question. Talk to your aunt, and ask her. Not in an accusatory or confrontational way, but rather, in a way that is seeking to find out who really did know or suspect. Either way, you need help processing all of this. Please seek out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with the repercussions of the sexual abuse you suffered at the hands of this pedophile of an uncle. Chances are, you weren't his only victim. If you are so inclined, considered talking to other family members who could have been victimized by this pedophile. If you discover you weren't the only victim, you may find strength and options in numbers. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Apr 28, 2011
 my stepfather did the same thing
by: Lucielle brent owens

My stepdad did the same thing to me, when i was little. I still can remember that he walking in the bathroom and watching me take a bath, i asked him to leave but he refused.
I hope your aunt divorces the uncle you have
Apr 29, 2011
 Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Don't Quit: Don't you give up on your wonderful and beautiful self: Think Positive: Act Positove: Be Positive in all you do and say about yourself: You were brave enough and had the courage to search for and find Darlene's site: You truly want to let go of those effects of what that Sicko, bad, molester and abuser did to you in your tender years of childhood: He did you and injustice: Surely all in the house at the time must have known he was up to know good when he brought you into that room and locked the door: They have alot to answer for if they knew and did not come to your help: Putting fear into their victim seems the greater abuse of the child/adolecent being abused: The fear of not being able to tell or talk to someone: I was afariad to tell anyone in the boarding school what my abuser was doing to me and the other boys: You have the courage: Be strong: I am certain you have a friend your own age and gender that knows your feelings and secret: Ask that friend to read Darlene's loving, supporting, encourageing helpful heart words to you: Work at carrying out some of the things which will put your abuse into perspective for you: She sure wants what is the best for you but can only hope you act on her advice: Let your motto be: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: That you are wonderful and beautiful human being behind your Anonminity: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Surround yourself with caring, loving, cherishing people whom you trust: Who in turn value and respect you for the great and good person you are NOW in your life: Counselling in whatever form will benefit you greatly: Think about it then talk to someone you really trust who will guide you in that direction:

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