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Feb 09, 2010
 Anonymous:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

As you know, parents have the right to discipline their children, but they do NOT have the right to kick, punch or in any way do a child harm. You do not deserve to be mistreated in this way. And try not to minimize what's happening to you; it's about how you are affected, not whether or not your situation is better or worse than someone else's. Please talk to someone you trust: a teacher, a counsellor, a friend's parents, someone who can help you. Contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what you are still dealing with at home. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And you are being abused. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help
Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 10, 2010
 uncontrolled hitting of children by anyone especially their Parents is wrong
by: Maurice

Hitting/beating a child is wrong even if it is a form of discipline parents or guardian use. That brings me to You annoymous child of God/child of the Universe of 11 years of age. Your father is very wrong in punching you. kicking you because he seems to go into a rage when he does it which means he is uncontrolled and he can do untold damage to your sensitive and vunerable childs body. Get help, Tell someone. You do not deserve such abuse. He is not hearing your mother to stop such outbursts. Your Mother loves you because you are her beautiful child. If a child can't confide in their Mommy then they do not trust them. I am sure you have a friend or two your own age at school who you share your secrets with. Allow them to help you tell someone bring them with you for support. Yes, there's nearly always a teacher who is ever so gentle and nice. caring. talk with her and she'll direct you in the right way. Annonymous 38. Darlene has given you loving supporting words from her heart to encourage you to be safe, and to tell. Don't be fooled he (your dad) will abuse you again. As you get older you know you cannot stop him or trust him from hitting you again. Please be safe.
Feb 11, 2010
 Your dad is out of control
by: Anonymous

Your dad does not love you in the way that every father should. Your dad has lots of problems and he needs help...but you need help too, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. Darlene and Maurice are right! Please tell someone you really trust, other than your mom.
Feb 11, 2010
 Take My Advice
by: Anonymous

Please get help! The way your father is treating you isn't right. You need to get help and quick. Things might get worse. You need to take yourself out of this situation. Don't be scared. This is your life we're talking about here. If I knew you in real life, I'd get you out of there myself. Please take my advice. Tell someone you trust and someone who you know will help you. Take care. God bless.
Feb 17, 2010
 Jen
by: Anonymous

I want to start by saying that I'm so sorry but you are being abused. Your story touched me b/c One: when I was a child, my dad would try to teach both me and my sister to play piano. Whenever we would make a mistake he would get really angry and try to intimidate us both to the point that my mother got a piano teacher to teach us instead. Second: He would constantly barge into my room (I was the youngest) trying to find anything to argue about.Third: The abuse occurred mostly when no adults were present. Forth: If he had a bad day at work or got in trouble for something he was doing, that's when he would come home and mentally/physically/emotional abuse me.
Feb 22, 2010
 Lean on God the Father's Shoulder
by: Anonymous

I AM DEEPLY SORRY. Let God be your refuge. You will get through this!!!!!! I promise you.
Let your Heavenly Daddy (God) wrap His arms of love around you. Call to Him and He will guide you.

Report this abuse to someone you know. You do NOTTTTT deserve to be treated this way and I truly know that if you rely on God's strength you will get through this.

GOD BLESS YOU!
YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS!

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