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Dec 20, 2012
 Angel:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

What your mother is doing is so very typical of abusers and enablers: they deny what happened, and worse, point the finger of blame onto the victim, which further victimizes that person. The fact that she won't have any more to do with you is, like you say, for HER. It's too embarrassing to have others know what she did and didn't do. SHE'S the liar. And as long as she continues to lie and minimize and point the finger of blame at you, you don't want that toxicity in your life. It's a blessing that she doesn't want anything to do with you as long as she carries on in this manner. What's important now, Angel, is that you take very good care of your Self. If you live your life with the sole purpose of getting people to hear you and believe you, then you'll have done so at the expense of living your life to the fullest possible. Then the abusers and enablers will continue to control you. They will continue to have power over you. Yes, they all deserve to be held criminally liable. And yes, they deserve to all be in prison. And yes, you deserve to be told by all of them that they mistreated you and abused you and that they were wrong. But the likelihood of that happening is pretty much zero. YOU know what you endured. YOU know the truth. Now it's time to begin walking the path of healing. And that starts with reaching out for help dealing with the terrible repercussions of a mother who made such terrible choices that continually put you at risk. Treat your Self better than anyone ever has, Angel. You deserve the dignity, respect and love that you never received. Give it to your Self by first reaching out for help. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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